You are right that our H's R with Ow's could work out(at least for the time being) and if it does then we need to be the bigger person(s). THis Ow will be around our children and WE NEED to show strength and inner peace with ourselves. Letting the anger go. We need to be in control and in charge of our lives.
This is taking the high road. Let Ow and our H's continue to travel down the "Never-Never Land" freeway, while we are giving our kids the stability and love they need
As I said before until they face their demons they will not be happy. Our H's will have problems with Ow too. The grass is not greeener. They just need to take off their very dark sunglasses......