MJ, I totally read it wrong; my bad. I must say that the Lance-man sounds spectacular overall, so why nitpick?
.... did you tell him he provided *plenty* of fun? ....
I wasn't nit-picking, I was fretting but I've stopped. I think when you say "You're more fun than Cedar Point" to a man right after sex he pretty much will get the idea that you enjoyed it (he might also get a clue that you're the dopamine-ruled toddler type- sigh.)
Anyway, I was reading a book that might answer Cemar's question. It said that men want to form relationships with women who fill all or most of the following roles:
1) The Hottie (sex) 2) The Sweetie (caring) 3) The Pal (friendship) 4) The Prize (status) 5) The Person (respect)
So if you're married to a woman who isn't filling role 1 for you she probably is filling some of the other roles well and that's why you stay with her or why you married her in the first place.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
