Thanks ST! What's weird is we've made 2 house payments since he officially moved home, so it's not like this is the first one. At that time we did sit down and agreed on amounts, and said we could revisit later if we wanted to. So I'm not sure why it was such a weird deal - instead of sitting down and looking at it again together it was this whole big secretive/mystery thing.
One of the kind of hurtful things he said in one of our bad convos last week was that he liked "the life that we have now, I know I couldn't have all the financial stuff without you" (made me feel like total dirt in a lot of ways, to "only" be wanted because I'm good at helping with the finances and helping fund his lifestyle... but I tried to see the positive in it and let it roll off).
Oh well.. red balloons, like SD suggested!
As for the rest, I agree that there's some depression going on. I'm hoping that the MC can help some... I know I can't.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
