mrs,

I was reading your post and I think that we are going to have to be D from our H's BEFORE they will begin to look at themselves-----unfortunately \:\( It's going to take a D from us (in their minds the one who has caused them unhappiness) in order for them to stop running!

I know this is true in my sitch anyway.

** H told d7 last night that he and Ow are going to get a puppy!
Ugh....... Isn't that special. At first I got upset b/c it seemed like another reminder that they are planning a future together. Then I stopped myself and said maybe their R is getting boring and they need something else to make them happy.

Whatever the reason for it, I am done as I told you last night. H isn't worth my time right now. He isn't capable of giving me what I need and treating me with the respect I deserve.

Hugs,
K