Tnx Nikki - My coaching went well. Vernetta knows her stuff! She said that I have to always keep in mind that I'm dealing with a drug addict here (W in her A) and proceed accordingly. She did say that everything I've done so far sounds very good and to keep doing it.
Re the drug addict metaphor, W's grandmother died yesterday (long expected) and her mother and aunts arranged the funeral for Monday to accommodate family coming from out of state, etc. Her mother called me first so I told her I would change my plans for Seaworld and bring our kids to the funeral. All of this really pissed W off because that's half of her planned romantic weekend with OM, and also she wasn't in on the decision re the kids. I told her calmly that it was my day to have the kids so it was my decision. She backed off, but she did say "I don't know why I should go to this funeral. Nana never did much for me when she was alive." I swear, an alien really has taken over her body. People in affairs are the most selfish, self-centered, self-absorbed entities in the universe. Their "taker" side has taken over their entire being and they will step on anyone to get what they want.
She also called her mother to let her have it about the scheduling. Anyway the point of all this is that it's dangerous to get between an addict and her drug.
Enough venting for now.
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