I go and pick up my daughter just about every day after work. I arrive at her place and I wait outside. Wife usually invites me in but now I am just telling her "thanks but no thanks" (I hate her place). She always kisses our daughter "bye". Some days I am able to leave without any response from her - I am not expecting anything.....but some days she reaches out for a "hug" and even a "kiss".
I am not being turned by her, I have made up my mind, and the reasons are stated above (gotta love the boards for re-reading my posts!) I just find it weird that she wants to keep me guessing and acting warm to me when in fact she lives in her own place. Just freakin nuts I think!!! And I know she is still not right in her head........
Anyway, I am happy that I have direction in my life, even with a divorce that's waiting to happen. I am doing better at work, and doing a good job of not thinking about my wife since I made a personal choice to move on.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
