Sorry to hear about your W going on two trips with OM, but believe me, when my W went on her trip with OM a few weeks ago, it didn't feel as bad as I thought. Sort of "out of sight out of mind".
I got to spend more time with DD during that time.
And who knows what will happen in the future. In alot of these sitches (that are panning out like ours), couples do reconcile later on, whether it is in 6 months or 2 years.
Who knows how we will feel in 6 months or 2 years.
At the moment my heart and mind is already made up, but as you know, time heals all wounds. This is the decision I have made for "today".
It sounds like you are getting to a better place emotionally, which is really good to hear. Like I keep saying, it does get better with time.
