Scott....that is the difference.....that YOU are able to look at BOTH sides of this. They can't. YOU can see the pain that they are in and try and look inward from their point of view. I don't think they can or at least EASILY...do it from our point of view.
No matter.
Scott...everyday....EVERYDAY...I have the same feelings as you. Know something Scott? I'm 6 foot tall. I played 13 years of lacrosse and was a center in football. I have to decide whether or not to operate on people...but.....yeah...I'm scared. I'm scared to death...FOR MY CHILDREN. I don't want to lose it in front of them. Just like you, I've dropped quite a few tears in front of this computer screen..and a LOT more on dark roads in my neighborhood as I ran in the middle of the night.
What am I saying??? I'm saying that we talk a lot here about 'being attractive', 'manning up', etc. Well, Scott...you'd wouldn't be half the man that I KNOW YOU ARE if you didn't have the feelings for your daughters that you do. Tears for your daughters are OK Scott. I cry with you....for my son and my daughter too.
But..we gotta dry 'em up when we're done and keep going....FOR THEM. We can't let them crash us. We just can't.
MLC? A new trend among women? Or just a lack of integrity?
It doesn't matter. We need to stop the need and think positive. We need to push forward...FOR THEM. Scott....move forward with your life for them. I support you.
Frank
PS...? prepping a new thread?
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
