Maybe this whole talk of wanting half of the house is just her way to get you to act. I think it might be.
I have no doubt about that too. She is using the ace card here & I know that my friend. The OM has his own house that is paid for, no mortage on that. He has a very good paid job, so does the W, between them they make the debt look quite small. Basically W has thrown the teddy on the floor, but I have a bigger teddy & it's on the floor too.
Originally Posted By: Nomopo
It's gonna stink if she takes final, short-term action (pushing a D), because her views are clouded by this financial sitch (not to mention OM)
Again I agree mate, there is no doubt that her head is messed. I have known all along that the friend & her brother (OM) have had a big part in this too. Again, I sat with hope that I would last out long enough to still care & be there for her if the crap hits the fan.
Part of me did not want to file for adultery against my W because, I really do love her & did not want that put to her name. I would have preferd her to file against me, even if that ment untruths being told. To know that she would see me with nowhere to go just made me see that I would be a very big fool indeed.
I'll continue to post here, I don't think i'm going away just yet. The main difference will be talk about the D rather than the hope of saving this mess.
Hey CVA, you have helped me enough mate, thanks for your time when you have posted here.
