It's going to be a bumpy ride

[Trixi]

So, the statement about only dating me would basically take care of me seeing if he wants to "work on the relationship", yes?

I saw my counselor this morning who said that when she was saying we should see each other once a week, it was because we were supposed to be trying to salvage the marriage. She agrees that if he is going to be 'dating' other people, then forget about it.

That will also help me 'unbuild' my case.

In retrospect, since he has been going out til all hours, to God knows where, I should have had him move out weeks ago. He is totally cake eating; it's no wonder he doesn't respect me. He still has not packed a single box. He was gone last night til 1:30- don't know where he was. He has been getting to have a great time at my (mental) expense. On one side he is getting to go out, drink, play, account to no one and then on the other side, he has his wife at home. That's a great gig!

I still need to formulate a couple of contingency plans for late night booty calls; sad sack calls; I miss you calls; etc.