Strange I have not been as supportive as Nomo on your thread but I want you to know you are taking / have been taking the high road. Continue to do so, you are the better person for doing so and will never regret it. Please follow Nomo's advice, it is amazing how in a couple of day the world can change, yes?
If you have to, just disappear, at this point it cant hurt can it? If it all comes down poorly, then so be it, but you can bet it wont get any better if you dont give it time in terms your emotions right now.
YOU ARE STRONG, BE STRONG!
CVA
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.