I am so scared to even hope but have to share this to see what everyone thinks. Last night he told me he had cooled things off with OW. Now this is only day 1 of him saying this but I have not asked about that relationsip, demanding, begged or even mentioned him ending it. This is totally on his own. I don't even know if I believe it to be honest but can't figure out why he would even tell me. When he told me I did not ask any questions only validated and did not mention our R at all nor did he. If it is true which time will tell I guess, I think it is a posiitive. And he called me again at work today to tell me he was going out today with a friend, told me where he was going and with whom. very not the norm lately to say the least. I am praying this is baby steps in my direction but I am so scared to even hope cause if it's not, I will have to get crushed again. Going to the gym after work as my mind is racing....what does everyone think of this? Do you think he's lying and if so why would he bother?