So would it be against DB'ing to tell him that he moved out, he needs to not ask me about these things, and he needs to figure them out on his own, or do I just keep my mouth shut?
I will ask you this; Do you want to be his mother or someone he considers an equal?
Originally Posted By: LeftInCali
I now realize if I want any chance of reconciliation that I need to be quiet. So I just keep my mouth shut and not say anything. I am thinking I will just act as if. If anyone asks how I am doing, I say great, thanks for asking.
Doesn't hurt that I am on day two of my Lexapro and I can already feel a difference.
Quiet? Where did you get that idea? Do not fear setting boundaries over the hopes of reconciliation. The sooner he figures out what life is going to be like without you the better for you. Somewhere along this process you may decide that he is not what you want after all.
