Oh, another note to our last night interaction. After H ate dinner ,I had already cleaned the dishes and he actually cleaned his dish. Then he sat watching tv for a while and fell asleep. I kept doing my hcores left over from the weekend that I did not finish (ugh laundry) and let him be. Its funny my six yr old said daddy must be really tired he fell asleep. After he awoke when I had taken a shower & closed my bedroom door to change & put lotion on & to put my robe over my PJ's i came out he was getting ready to leave by taking a few of his spanish cds? I thought to myself oh is he going back to his roots? His woman is country & hence has learned to Love country music.
Before he left he said "thanks for the nap"?? So all in all he was very cordial & respectful ( a good change ,respect, is what a family member had noticed some time back).
