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Last night he said that once he is gone, he doesn't think he'll be back..but he could be wrong. At least he always throws the possibility out there-however remote that is.


WOW.. what a schmuck. that's just called "keeping his options open".

If he leaves, "Well, I told you i wouldnt be back".
if he comes back, "see? i told you I'd be back".

schmuck.



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I am still torn about whether or not to date him. (Not have sex, just go do fun stuff-if he asks.)

He's definitely a cake eater....


After him saying that.. my vote is "go totally dark on the bum".

Dont emotionally support him until he finds someone else to date. Cut him off.

if you just cant stop yourself from dating him... STICK TO MORAL STANDARDS! dont be the pushover that he has despised you for!

Insist on exclusivity, if he wants to date you.
Make him work for the priviledge of dating you. You are a PRIZE, not a fallback.


remember: he will RESPECT you for sticking up for yourself.

He has told you that. Listen to him.

Last edited by Dom R; 08/01/07 03:49 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle