Do you think our spouses lose repsect for us if they know that we are aware of their infidelity and still want them back?
If my WAW does invite me to dinner/lunch, would accepting be going against the rule of establishing boundaries..in other words, should I say 'I do not want to be just another one of your dates'? (in the past my WAW and I have been intimate on numerous occassions, but not since we sould our home a month ago, and I did not get full confirmation of the OM until recently, although I had my suspicions).
Has anyone here in the past been the WAS? How do you think the WAS feels?
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM
