On this you and I agree. "I don't understand all the frustration over this topic. IMO, the easiest way to deal with this is to ask what he wants, he says he doesn't care, and then heat up a plain, bland frozen pizza each and every time (or something equally boring). After a while, he might start making some suggestions." In fact I did something similar....only I simply didn't cook. I'd simply fix a salad and sandwich my son and I would eat a salad myself. Now, when he really wants a cooked meal he provides me with some input. Perhaps he calls me at work and asks me to pick something up for dinner to prepare...which I'm happy to do, or when provided with a choice he gives his preference. It only took a few times of him asking me "what's for dinner?", after I had asked what he'd like or given him a choice, and me saying "I'm just having a salad...it's a fend for yourself night" beore he started giving me input.
