WAW1978's adventures in DB'ing

[Nomopo]

Not so much to me since it seems all the complaints are mine

Nonetheless, you know now that there are still many action oriented things you can do that will have an effect on the R, right?

H still is maintaining he was just fine with our M and no complaints about me...weird.

Actually, quite normal. It's part of the LBS denial there is a problem. They feel things slipping away and they want to say "don't walk away, there are no big problems." Normal, but not healthy or productive. Just part of the confusion H hasn't emerged from.

i am assuming sooner or later he will have to have something to say about me.

Yes, likely later, and that will be good if you are to build a great R for both of you.

I feel like your sitch needs a break. Like you guys need some time apart, to just let emotions come down, and to let him do some "awakening." Given your willingness to try counseling, etc., it would be nice if he could understand why that might actually increase the chances of saving your M.

Hang in there,
Nomo