Yes, the MC has been doing both. First exploring what are issues are, how they became issues, how we both feel. He has offered suggestions to my H on how to move forward. Not so much to me since it seems all the complaints are mine...H still is maintaining he was just fine with our M and no complaints about me...weird. i am assuming sooner or later he will have to have something to say about me.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.