Nomo,
That is some good info. Thanks for posting it. It sounds so hard to practice tho when you keep bumping into a brick wall no matter what you do. How do you be friends with somebody that has built a brick wall around them? Things just have gotten worse for me as H just called yesterday to say he filed for the D papers. He doesn't want to have anything to do with me and is being clouded by the OW and the hurt that he still feels.


Me: 41
H: 39
D: 6
S: 4
M-14 T-16
first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.)
second bomb: 6-4-2007
(found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything)
Kelley