I try to watch my words to H b/c he takes everything to heart the bad way all the time.
I see your stich is still VERY new. I got the bomb back in 8/06,but denied any affair for many months after even when I found proof one month later. H wanted a D right away first & then a S,but I would not give it to him & said I was not going to sign anything just yet. H EA was going on for maybe two years (co worker) until I found out & I stopped having sex w/ him (my descion) & THEN is when I belive it became PA he could not understand why I would not have sex w/ him??? H had the D papers drafted and months went by & I did not sign & it expired? I found out many time they dont want the D,but will just have the papers drafted to "show" the Ow they are actively working on it!! WHen I was getting tired of waiting I said ok I will sign so he re did it oen month later I signed adn handed it to him by saying" her what you wanted now go & celebrate your freedonm w/ your woman"! I was in a PMA(faking of coarse) and al dolle dup ready to GAL (weekday mind you). This is when H had his first break down (crying) thought I was seeing somone else & said he did not want a D & why did I want to sign it so quickly now? The papers I have signed since May & he will not file says he will not get OW hopes up for nothing just yet.
My H is still confused. In a way I its good I kicked him out b/c he starting t o see the grass for its real color but in away I just dont know for sure....
We were just IM'ng & I asked if he had taken me off his health insurance like he said he would b/c Ineeded to fill my script today. He said no he only said that b/c I mad him mad on Friday regarding the girls. About the girls- at first he would always say- well at least I dont take them to her place like she wants ...well that did not last long & he started to take them over nights on his weekends. We are not even legally seperated. That is why this weekend I said no more sleepovers. He was furious.
Dont give up Kelley! He may file but it still not over. Let him live the REAL life w/ her..he'll see
