Yes after I got home and we talked about the R and what could be done to reconcile she said I would have never asked you to come back! Amazingly because I was much more emotional back then I didn't react at all just nodded and said okay and excused myself from the conversation.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
Sorry to hear that it appears he has given up. I don't know what to say except, what if he changes his mind, what will you do and how would you react? You know what to do in the mean time, I am sorry to hear things aren't better.
Last night I opened a phone bill, I don't normally so she will figure something is up but I noticed another 80 minute phone call to the "friend" she thinks she isn't having the emotinal affair with. Oh well, I am being nice and loving and will see what happens.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
GF, I don't think that he will ever change his mind. Now that he is out completely he is happy just getting a piece of a$$ whenever he can get it. I seriously doubt that the things that I have said to him about working on a R will ever sink in. If things don't work out with this chick then he will just move on to the next sleazy pig. That is what he always did until he met me.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
I thought my marriage was dead. I thought I did not love my W. and it was more important to get things right with myself and neglect everything else. I found this to be lies and confusion, don't know everyone is different but he will probably figure it out although I fear too late. My prayers for you and your family.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
I thought my marriage was dead. I thought I did not love my W. and it was more important to get things right with myself and neglect everything else. I found this to be lies and confusion, don't know everyone is different but he will probably figure it out although I fear too late. My prayers for you and your family.
That sounds just like my H. I just hope he will figure it out as well.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
There couldn't be any sweeter justice for the WAS to want to come back at some point and time and be able to tell them, I gave you the chance to make things right how long ago, you broke my heart and I have realized since then that I am better off without you.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
I know. I feel like I am a shizophrenic thru this all or can't get off the roller coaster ride. Too much up and down with my emotions. I can't wait to be heading out to LA next week to leave this all behind for a whole week.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
