chicki,
That was very right on your part to send that to him. Children should not be pulled into that situation and he shouldn't even be trying that while there is no D.

So how are you dealing with the possibility of him filing for D? Are you ok with that? Are you trying to still work things out with him? Does he really seem like he wants the D or just saying that?

I got a call from the H yesterday at work to say that he has filed. I gave him the same line about not standing in his way but to also let him know that the door is not shut yet. I also called his mother to let her know because maybe once the D goes thru than H might start trying to bring OW around his family and children but she is a complete sleazy pig and I told my MIL what she is like because she will have to watch out for my kids on what pig my H is bringing around them. He still isn't saying anything right now to me or his parents about her but all of our friends know.


Me: 41
H: 39
D: 6
S: 4
M-14 T-16
first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.)
second bomb: 6-4-2007
(found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything)
Kelley