ITA with everyone else. You don't have to prove anything to H. Your word is truth, and he can accept it or not. That's HIS problem.

And...well, I say go out on Thursday no matter what. It's a diversion. You get to hang out with upbeat people, have a couple of drinks, and take a vacation from your sitch for a while. Go, choose to have fun, and enjoy!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!