Sorry to hear about the little bump in the road with the Dallas trip & your son.
On the positive...You are at the house quite often, still having the backrubs...you are doing far better than most of us on this board. I can't help but wonder what it will take to get you to the next level with your W?
You have said in the past the W is not the type to make the first move...do you think it would be a huge backslide if you tried to ask her to do something alone with you? Something non-threatening that you would both enjoy?
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.