Nikki,, St is right you do dnot need to explain yourself to H. Sounds like he might have been a little jealous. Try not to tell himmuch and make him wonder if he is about to lose you.
It's good to see you starting to detach again. Make your PMA go up doesn't it.
Who knows maybe if H thinks you are too busy getting a life he'll decide to join you and dump OW for good.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez