Hi there everybody. I have been posting in the Newcomers section, but since the wife now feels she needs a divorce, and we have been going through this for six months I guess I am not a newcomer anymore!
It would appear from conversations last night that the fat lady has indeed started warbling!
She only cares about me as a friend. She did love me, but doesn't anymore. She wants to stop all the hurt she is causing me and so wants a divorce.
Do you know what! I've had enough. She can have one. Let her sample the grass on the other side. We are both being adult and reasonable about the whole thing. We have said that we want to involve the lawyers as little as possible. We shall draw up our own terms etc and then only go to see the lawyers once we have agreed on everything.
No point in lining their pockets. Does anybody know what the lowdown is on the reasons for a divorce. What I mean to say is that she has committed adultery, however I have stated that I will just use Unresonable behaviour as I don't want to cause any more pain to anyone than has already been caused.
Does it matter in any way who has behaved unreasonably, does it affect any settlement? Any rights? Can it be used against me for instance in the future if she says I have behaved unreasonably?
I wish we didn't need to do this, however this is what she wants, and who am I to stand in her way. I am just going to move onwards and upwards in this journey called life!
