Thanks for your honesty, Aud, and I do prefer people to be direct. Don't soften it for me!
I'm kinda between a rock and a hard place, right now. My H has to have a job, wherever it may be, but I also want to make sure my D14 is happy too. It's not just school, but if she moves to the USA, she won't even be able to have a part-time job on the visa we will have. I guess we're going to have to wait and see how things work out, and figure it all out when we cross the bridge.
My S20 moved all this way to be with us while he goes to school, so how can we desert him now, if we leave with D14?
I will pray about this most fervently.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim