look an attorney isn't called counsel for nothing, you seeking counsel, and if you don't like the counsel your getting, then seek something else. you don't have to put crap down until you make sure your on the same page. in all honesty, if l doesn't agree with you, and you voice this, i bet the l will recommend one that would. generally, all are pretty good at doing that sort of thing, they know who will do that type of work or work that way. don't settle there, just like picking a therapist, you choose your attorney, pick one that represents you, not just legally.
taking care of the house isn't the final gavel drop on this and you don't have to have it be.
