Dome great stuff DLB, The only thing I can say id keep being strong when it comes to your thoughts and actions about your OW. If you slip with her, you could destroy everything. Your the one who wants to fix this right now, an EA or any A period, will put the final nail in your coffin. I just found out about my wife's EA, and it hurts like hell, don't do it if you want to save your M. Your doing great, stay on track and keep learning.
Me 31 W 28 D 2 1/2 Together 8 years, Friends for 13 years S Bomb fathers day 2007 Found out about EA on 07/29/07 Working on me!!!