Newbie ? How public was your spouse's affair?

[mkultra]

I have no idea what my H thinks about his reputation. The choices are: people are appalled, people are not surprised, or people don't care this is so common and cliche. I am always slipping to my therapist that it seems like a lot of men have affairs with younger women when they have MLC. She corrects me each time and replies a lot of men are faithful to their wives and stay with their children. Oh yeah. I forgot!