Frustrated and Saddened #2

[stewart10]

Okay.. Could use a little advice.

My sister who recently had the baby has been in the hospital since last Friday night. She has an infection. But she is in the same hospital my W works at. So tonight, after work, I go up to visit my sister. I haven't been there yet because of our trip and last night I did not get out of work until after visiting hours were over.

So I get to the hospital and I am walking towards the hospital from the parking garage. I see someone that looks like my wife (I am about 60 yards away) walking with two guys back into the hospital. One of the guys on the walk back in goes behind her and kind of grabs her in a bear hug from behind. Then breaks it off and walks real close to her. Then about five steps later kind of shoves her playfully. (at this point I feel like I am watching the kindegarden kid with a crush on his classmate, I honestly expected him to pull her hair next). But it is clear that this guy is waaaay too touchy feely with her. (I almost didn't think it was her because it was so excessive). So, I think for a moment (not long enough), and I yell out my W's name. They all stop and look, she kind of stands there for a minute and the two guys go in the hospital and she walks to me. I say (against my better judgment) hey, that guy was kind of touchey feeley with you huh? She tells me its nothing to worry about, that everyone there is like family, and something about her having something on her from sitting on the ledge, so he "was joking around". I told her I didn't find it funny or appropriate. She said, that "he has a girlfriend" and there is nothing to worry about and it's not like that. I am slightly ticked off, so I just basically drop it. She tells me to let her know when I am leaving. I texted her on my way out and she came to meet me. She again told me "don't be weird". I told her I don't appreciate that type of conduct and that I am sure if the shoe was on the other foot, that she would not be happy either. She paused, and shook her head, and said that she was just trying to explain.

Well, I am still not happy about this. I know that it is not evidence of anything, but it just annoys me. This is the same guy that she basically lied to me about the weekend before last where she did not come home at all, by saying that she was not hanging out with him. Then the next day, she comes clean and says she was and had to drop him off at a friends house Saturday night. This is the same person that texts her several times a day. The same person whose text messages are erased when I look at her phone. (I know). She will be home shortly. I think I will try and let this go. But it just burns me so bad. I also don't want her to think that I am stupid. That she can act this way and think I have no clue what is going on.

And looking at this, I don't know that there is much more that I could say that I haven't already. I just don't want her to think I am an idiot. Her mother and the rest of her family thinks that she does not respect me anymore and that fact is actually hurting me.