So, I just talked to my W again, this is the fourth time to call me today. She called me and said " I thought you were going to call and check on E(youngest D)" I replied with " Oh, I'm sorry, I thought you said that she was staying over at your mom and dads tonight so I called over there and your mom told me that you were going to drop her off in the morning on your way to work, so I figured since it was late that y'all might be asleep already and I was just going to call tomorrow." She then asked me if I was alseep, I guess I kind of sounded that way, but I was actually using what I call my "soft, easy voice" that I use to project calmness ( I actually am tired,I've been up since 4am yesterday. Now, I know some of you are saying to yourselves "So she called, big deal", well it is a big deal because this is out of the norm for her, you can bet you postier that if I had been at work, she wouldn't have called. She proceeded to tell me all about D and how her day was when she got home, and then she in a "I'm curious about what your doing right now, but I'm going to come straight out and ask kind of way" asked me if I had to go into work early tonight like I did last night and, kind of probed as to what I was doing at the moment, I of course told her the truth because I damn sure do't want her to think that I've let go completey and am now seeing other women, I said " We're just sitting here watching "Goodfellas" and I'm about to go to bed because I'm beat". She asked me a few more fishing questions but without really trying to seem to be and I answered honestly again and then told her " Well, I talk to you later, goodnight. It was another very nice convo, with lots of mmmhmms, and yeahs, and oh reallys by me and a few that's great thrown in for good measure, the funny thing is that I did it naturally and not forced, I was really listening to her. It makes me feel good that she called.


Me:38
W: 35
Married 11 years
2 daughters ages 7 and 3
D filed by her
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