you were not wrong, but i should explan, if she moves home, i'll feel like i'm making the payments. that is the control issue again, just from a diffrent view. since basically we have x amount of dollars and now this much has to go to that.
seriously, i have got to work on my control. it is going to drive her away if i don't. so at this point, i have viewed it as control in the decision, the type of car and the payment. i'm self sabatoging here.
teresa thanks, its nice to have a little of the female persuassion come on to your posts and sort of lay it out straight. you put a group of guys together long enough and they'll find something to break. i'm just over analyzing, its a car, big deal, we can afford it, big deal, it made her happy, good for her.
