Glad you're doing okay. You sound very grounded and strong in spite of it being such a murky time. Hang in there.
I like the "don't serve the problem" philosophy. Like the "what you think about, expands" school of thought. It's a hard habit to break, worrying and fixing and trying to control outcomes, but with practice, it gets easier, or so I'm told...
I came across this thought for the day, myself: "I can't control other people's thoughts or feelings."
What a liberating concept :)!! I'm definitely chewing on that one for a while.