Just a crazy thought for the rest of you and by no means am I supporting WAS. But, do you ever wonder if all of this really is harder on WAS then it is on us?
I think in my case it is harder on my WAH than it is on me. Sure, he's made all the decisions...he should be doing what he wants...but deep down I don't think he is. If he could make this whole mess disappear, he would. He has to look at himself in the mirror everyday and not only know that he did me wrong, but that he did himself wrong. No matter how hard he tries to convince himself and others that he is doing the right thing, his heart knows the truth. I am living the same life...I still have a great job, a nice place to live, my family, my friends, and most of my ILs. The only thing missing is my H. My H doesn't really have anything...dead end job, crappy place to live, and a family that he let down and now they are so tired of his lies a lot of them aren't even talking to him...oh, I almost forgot he's got OW...we all know what she is worth...nothing. I was the one that was cheated on and rejected but given that, I still believe I am happier than my H.
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