Ok, I realize that really was not a question that I added on at the end. More like a statement of how delusional people can be when they think that what they need is someone elses spouse, or someone who is WILLING to come between a couple and their M. UGH!
If I was a woman put into the sitch to choose...a married man or nothing. I would choose nothing each time (and then call his wife)too much heartache and I wouldn't want to be any part of that. I like myself too much! Just remember that you are someone who obviously likes themselves too and that your H is probably feeling really low and really guilty.
Me:33; Ring on 5/17/97 H:33; Ring off 5/31/07 Together:13years Married: 10 ("celebrated" 10th after he moved out Bomb Dropped: New Year's Eve '07 Moved out: 5/4/07 Filed: 3 weeks later S: 3 D&S(twins):1