Geez, I can almost sense what happened. It sounds like my H. He actually said to me during the time we were trying to work on our M b/4 he filed that "He hated who he had become" and gee I wonder why.....b/c of the OW. He actually said to me that basically people are telling him at work that the fact that he is having an affair (if he was having one says H) would be understandable because I am now his Estranged wife and he my Estranged H....NO just STRANGE!
I am glad that you are feeling strong. It is important!!!!
Question....I have always wondered how anyone can really think highly of themselves when they go after someone else's H or W. Just remember that it is not just your H who has lost his mind and thinks lowly of himself. It is ALSO THE OW!!
Hi by the way!!
Me:33; Ring on 5/17/97 H:33; Ring off 5/31/07 Together:13years Married: 10 ("celebrated" 10th after he moved out Bomb Dropped: New Year's Eve '07 Moved out: 5/4/07 Filed: 3 weeks later S: 3 D&S(twins):1