Tuesday, 7/31

H and I had lunch together today for the first time in weeks. No R talk, just talked about work and the news. He's been talking about work alot lately and I've been trying hard to really pay attention and validate. In retrospect, I think I used to cut him off or change the subject alot. How horrible.

Not much more contact today besides a quick hello in the morning and a family dinner, which was fine. He cooked on the new grill. Can grilling be a key to happiness? ;\) I hope so.

I need to go back and look at my goals and re-work my GAL strategy. I've been lax on doing new things, but have been good about getting together with friends and doing fun things with the kids. I think my attitude has been good the last 2 days, so I just need to keep it up.

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08