Thank you. Yes I am doing my best to work on myself, already went to Barnes and Noble when he had the kids last week. I have a stack of books and have been reading. Going out with some girl friends on Sat night and looking forward to that.
I still have not heard from him about him seeing the kids. This is twice in one week he said he wanted to get the kids, but never did. I want to text him and ask him about it, he got off work about half an hour ago (i called work and found out). i am not sure if that is considered pursuing, or just trying to hold him to his responsibility? What do I do? My friends are just saying do nothing and just log it. (i have been keeping track of all his visitation and now every time he says he will take the kids and does not).