Called him, not coming home.

[yawmom]

I can't tell if it's MLC or not, from what I've read (a ton) the H in MLC turns on his wife, blames her, is moody, negative, etc. I don't really know what he feels other than she makes him feel attractive. He told me he loved me, was romantic, had sex etc.
I'd love for him to come home, but I really can't wait years, when he's gone non stop and I have little or no contact with him.
As you said, TLR won't work, so I'm just suppose to sit and wait and see if he comes back? I am rebuilding my life, I've walked, gone out with friends, try to keep busy. Yes, I'm trying to fix me but I guess I dont' understand how I'd "win" him back or how he returns by just biding my time when he's not around.
so what's the suggestions?