Thanks. I guess I'm not sure what is pulling at me about this, that the decision wasn't made together. Sort of a big thing in our house, but then again I guess she isn't really in house yet, so that would make it none of my business.
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Is this what if feels like when you just let go of the control? I'm not upset, I'm not really anything, but sort of felt left out. She did say she needed to something big by herself, so I guess as much as it is therapy for me, it is for her.
Well, I'm not going to say crap about the decision, unless she asks, then I'm going to be honest but talk supportively. She said I'm bs'ing her honesty right now and trying too hard, she wants it down a notch. Validating can be rough at times, and just uh-huh gets you in trouble sometimes as well.
So if she asks, I'll say, I'm not s a car payment is what you needed right now, but if a new ride outweighed that, then you made a good decision. Enjoy! Nothing more, she will know all said in that short answer.
