Geeze...sounds like some of you are just sure that your R/M are over...already wondering where to meet the next MR/MRS right...
I thought most were here for support of their M and with help in the processes that go along with that...
I know you take an emotional hit...a hard on at that when your S leaves you...especially for an OM/OW...but trust me when I tell you that looking for someone else to fill that need and heal those wounds isn't what you really NEED...
I was alone for nearly 2 years...I never thought I could make it through the first month...I met and married my H when I was very young...went from living with mom and dad to living with H...never lived on my own before...and sure...I "thought" I was ready to move on...I "thought" I was ready to test the waters, flirt, have someone interested in me...but I soon found out that I really needed that time for me...and I am thankful I didn't go any farther then I did with "wants" because my H did come home...and I was glad to be there for him...I have the love of my life back...the father of my kids...something that I don't think would have been found in another...and something I could have lost for good if I had not kept the focus on me and working on myself while my H was having his MLC...
If you have any doubt what so ever about your M/R...you need to not think about who is going to be next...you need to focus on you and your kids...and just maybe your hard work will pay off...
