I may have gone against DBing, but like you said, I will not be torturing myself about not saying things I wanted to say. I am going dark. I don't care anymore about putting on a happy face when I am not happy. If she can make this decision to leave and move out without having a job shows me she is not thinking clearly. If some OM has her head filled up with how things should be, then so be it. Let her see how someone else will treat her.
That took a lot of courage - how are you doing? Did she have any response?
