Sorry you're having a tough time. It's all normal but that doesn't make it easier to live through, I know.
I used the hate to help me detach a few times.. yes you want to lovingly detach, but sometimes it's a whole lot easier when it's helped along by a bit of anger. The lovingly can come back later, if/when you're ready.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
