Have you read Deida's Way of the Superior Man ? He talks about this. She will only be attracted to you if she respects you and believes that you are following your true path, irrespective of what she does or does not do.
I have not read it but it gets talked about on the forums here so I may see if I can get a copy.
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You are in the zone, working on yourself and seeing if there are possibilities for a R with this woman who you are trying to get to know. Keep thinking that way and you will find the right path for you.
You have this nailed , right now I don't even know if I want to take our relationship further as strange as that may seem. I know there are a lot of reasons we should but there is going to have to be some changes first.
W is a bit more annoying now when she comes around home. She comments on any changes and its "why is this in here , it belongs ..." sort of stuff , or "We dont usualy watch this on TV " Sorry W we only watched X because you wanted too , the rest of the family want to watch Y ( I didnt actualy say this but did not change the channel to what she wanted ) she is trying to regain control and I am starting to see how controlling she was in our R
