He didn't take leaving you lightly? Ha! More MLC garbage, especially if he didn't bother trying to communicate any unhappy feelings to you, or try working on any marital issues. He is just trying to justify his actions to your friends, and trying to come out looking like a good guy, which he is not at this point.

You don't say how long you've been married, or if you have any children. These things would affect how you should/could proceed. I would agree with JAK, and not sign anything until it's been checked over by your L. Also, don't proceed with the D, unless it's something you really want. I also wouldn't sign anything away that you are entitled to under the law, or if it will cost too much in legal fees to fight for it. Be careful ... MLCers will come across as nice to get something out of you.

Of course, this is assuming he is in MLC.

Take care.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim