Only if she doesn't look in the bag or pile of stuff until she gets home. Anyway to position it so she sees it more quickly? On top of the other stuff in the bag (or whatever)?
That's my concern -- that she won't open up the bag of mail until she gets home. I haven't given her any notes, letters, etc, since I quit writing them mid May. I don't think she'd have any reason to skim through the contents of the bag until getting home, and I'm pretty sure OM will be home when she gets there, so it could be a disaster. Of course, I actually think it's a pretty good possibility that if she saw it w/ OM there she might nonchalantly put it away and open it later when he isn't around (if the seeds of doubt are sprouting, then I think this will definitely happen -- unless of course he notices and asks about it). On the other hand, if she does open it w/ OM around, I think it would be awesome if he got all butt-hurt about it and started making smart-ass comments about it, the idea, me, etc. It would show his insecurity and place me in a much better light. Don't know if he's the kind of guy to react that way, but I sure hope he is (maybe he will begin to show his true colors and the fantasy will dissipate).
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I find it hard to believe she won't say anything. My thought is she at least acknowledges it next time you two either talk or see each other.
Maybe, but she's pretty shy about showing emotions in general, and with her being the one to walk away and seemingly feeling so guilty about it, I don't think she could bring herself to do it. I actually think she might be afraid of the emotions that could spill out after she did. It'd be a potential domino effect. Also, the fact that she never mentioned the letters I was writing her tells me this might be something that she doesn't acknowledge either. Hard to say though. I would like to bring it up, but I'm pretty sure that this wouldn't be in my best interest.
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Is you answer the same if she thanks you in person or on the phone. I guess I assumed the last stand would be in person. Not sure it has to be, but just assumed that.
Haven't decided on what my answer will be yet, but you make a good point. I don't think I would delve into the last stand talk on the phone. I really do think that would be more powerful and best done in person.
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Originally Posted By: Gone Dancin' I'm actually thinking of adding to it:
"P.S. Thanks for working with me and my plans for the next two weekends. It really means a lot to me."
Thoughts anyone?
I like it. The note doesn't need it, but I think it is fine. Also doesn't seem like too much (eg, overkill). I guess I could go either way.
I was just trying to figure out a subtle way to get in some WOA LL. Haven't decided if I'll do it or not.
