just starting to read it...just got off the phone with my DB coach she has a new one for me/us to read...How to improve your marriage without talking about it...by Dr. Patricia Love she feels it is even better than 5 LL. Had a good session...gave me some pointers on boosting his confidence...and working on my patience. She pulled out the good points of our two phone conversations and the bad and helped me figure out what he was really saying...also says it wasn't anger he was trying to get accross to me...it was hurt...I understand that now and understand why he feels that way.

H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"