You are right on that. Recently I mentioned that the kitchen floor needs re-done (it was done incorrectly after the fire and H and I agreed to wait and do a larger area all at once instead of fighting with the guy who screwed up)and H proceeded to get a sample of the exact same thing that is in there already and get pricing on it. He ignored all of my comments that I was concerned that our family might be too hard on a wood floor in a kitchen and that we should probably look at some Pergo type products, tile and maybe even bamboo flooring (I wasn't sold on anything in particular, wanted to do more research for the most durable product). He got really pissed because he felt that my one comment (he acknowledged I only mentioned it once but said that he knew that meant I had been thinking about it for months) was in essence my way of asking him to take care of it ASAP and here I was questioning him when I hadn't done one thing to research anything. So, I researched and although I still think we will beat the h*ll out of a beautiful wood floor in no time I saw no good reason not to go with the product that he chose. The thing is that I inadvertantly "questioned" his leadership when I wasn't aware that I had even asked him to lead.
